The text explores the intricate relationship between counselling, identity, and lived experiences, emphasizing that identity is shaped both personally and externally. The author reflects on their experiences as a gay counsellor working with the LGBTQIA+ community, highlighting the challenges of conveying the complexities of diverse identities in a training environment often dominated by theoretical understanding. Interaction with peers revealed assumptions about objectivity and understanding lived experiences, underscoring the need for cultural competence in therapy. Ultimately, the author advocates for empathy and recognition of personal experiences to foster effective counselling relationships and genuine inclusivity in society.
Tag: self discovery
Navigating Short-Term Therapy: A Queer Client’s Journey
In my early therapy practice, I connected deeply with a young queer client navigating trauma, grief, and a tumultuous relationship. Our limited sessions intensified the urgency of their struggle, compounded by a career-ending injury and the loss of their father. Despite doubts from my supervisor about their authenticity, I chose to trust their genuine distress and provide unwavering support. As we explored their complex emotions, a therapeutic bond flourished, allowing for meaningful growth even within the constraints of short-term therapy. This experience reinforced the immense power of empathy in fostering healing, revealing how even brief connections can spark profound transformations.
Gabriel Muller-Ebeid Counselling 